UPDATE: (in case you guys wanted to know)
I had to buy a whole new mobo and CPU. (Lanparty one and a phenom 9850 or hwatver it is)
turns out the mobo had blown, so we bought that first, then since i bent the pins on the bottom i guess when i fixed them i stripped them so it was causing a loading problem. now everythings fine and works great and im very pleased. Spent a lil more money then I wanted but at least it works.
thanks you guys!
